There's been times in the past, for all of us where we seem to have knock-backs or feel deflated about something you were hoping for that didn't happen.

Times like that make you stronger as a person. You should take it as a learning process and understand that there will be times when something isn't quite right for you but that something better will come along.

I myself, have tried a good few things over the years and not been successful in it or got the title i wanted straight away and I've had to start (just like everyone else) at the beginning. I told myself to never give up and its one thing I've always been taught to do. You just have to keep pushing yourself and eventually you'll get there.



The reason for today's blog post is, i'm sitting here looking at certain people i know's social media accounts and half wishing i was like them, that i had their job or their shoes or their phone, their life. A lot of people do this, especially with society always showing expectations and celeb culture. People follow trends and in all honesty it just makes you become someone else. You are no longer you, because you are trying to fit in, you are trying to keep up this other persona and in the end it makes you feel a bit crappy. You either cant afford the latest coolest gadgets like the Kardashian's or you have lost some of your hair attempting to dye it a certain colour that Instagram seems to deem 'cool'.

I've found the coolest most realest person you can be is YOURSELF.
Don't get caught up in the hype and do things out of character to impress your followers. I can guarantee those celebs you see online posting and posing in luxurious places are struggling with personal matters too and they feel pressured to post what they do to 'keep up'. Today's society is pressuring, and its sad because it literally kills people. Many young people suffer from eating disorders trying to be like a certain model or popstar and its very dangerous.

If more people embraced their own bodies for what it is and loved themselves regardless of not having expensive houses or clothes, you will feel a huge change within yourself and realise that YOU ARE ENOUGH and you always will be!